I am not sure whether it's because I am not, strictly speaking, in "the business" that I have a different take or because I have met famous actors in a social situation and was adamant that I did not wish to cross the line by pitching an idea (its just not the done thing....) Ironically if I had not met them in that situation, I would not have thought twice about exploiting the opportunity. I remember some years back, hearing that Ken Loach was attending an event just around the corner that I had been invited to but couldn't make - I looked up his itinerary and saw that he was due at a book signing re the making of "Looking for Eric" about 200 miles away in Manchester the very next day. So I booked a ticket and travelled to Manchester, queued up and when it was my turn to get my book signed, I put a friend's film script synopsis in his hand and said "please could you look at this - it would be great if you made it". He took it, smiled and said "I will look at it - are your details on it for a reply". I assured them that that was very much on it and turned and left and travelled back to London. A week later, he contacted me and said it wasn't "his film" but he recommended another director whose genre it was. When I tell that story - some people think it was crazy of me to travel so far when I could have done the same thing the previous night just around the corner with a drink in my hand at the social event that I had been invited to but......it just isn't the done thing. I rather like Will Smith's approach - he hung about outside a theatre every single night, approaching actors that he could have approached in another venue - but felt it was more appropriate to do it by hanging about outside than approach someone through a network. It's a weird thing but when someone becomes successful in an industry, psychologically (cos that's my industry) - a direct, "you are famous, you have influence" request is more attractive than someone sidling up to them at a social event under the guise of friendship and interest in them. Equally on Stage 32 - I would consider that a direct approach should be the recommend. I could be wrong - but the actors I have asked thus far, seem to agree with me. If opportunity doesn't knock - build a door is an old phrase but it is where you build that door that makes the difference, in my humble opinion.
Hi Eileen, In my experience...I'm ready for anything, anytime, anywhere. I seize opportunities. But, I also try to always keep things appropriate for the situation. Creating and seizing opportunities is a learned art.
I always try to help people with helpful tidbits of information about...
Expand commentHi Eileen, In my experience...I'm ready for anything, anytime, anywhere. I seize opportunities. But, I also try to always keep things appropriate for the situation. Creating and seizing opportunities is a learned art.
I always try to help people with helpful tidbits of information about the industry where I can. And not because I get paid; not because I expect something in return, not because I want something from someone. It's just a part of being a good team member. Often, my gestures, advice and ideas come back to me when someone gets a job or when someone has a success. I just consider it sharing my knowledge and paying it forward. In life and in this business, people need all the helpful tips they can get.
Social networking is here to stay. Dare I say it has revolutionized society and being able to know how to best network with people is a great assset, no matter what industry someone is in. This is one reason Stage 32 is so wonderful.