Summer Fun Challenge - Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend!

Summer Fun Challenge - Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend!

Summer Fun Challenge - Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend!

Karen "Kay" Ross
Karen "Kay" Ross
4 years ago

You may recall we experimented with this riff on a classic Stage 32 event a few months ago. The impact of the “Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend” has been astounding! I even received this very lovely “thank you” message from one of my new friends and previous networking buddy:

Summer Fun Challenge  Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend

Thank you, Kimberly! Now that summer is here, productions are up and running, forward momentum is paramount! Pun intended. There is no better way to get energized than to grab a friend to help you meet new friends!

To help show you how to participate in Stage 32’s monthly online networking event, I have selected a friend to join me as a networking buddy. One of the benefits of working with a networking buddy is getting to know your buddy that much better! Today, we discuss - getting over perfectionism, writing in other mediums which inform your scripts, getting notes from Writer’s Room members (thanks, Noel!), sharing loglines, and preparing for the inevitable conversations during pitches (sign up for your Pitch Session here!). The big takeaway? Don’t count yourself out! Keep the momentum going with those first few steps!

I hope you enjoy getting to know my friend, Kelly Shanley, a comedian, writer, and actor whose Medium humor column is going swimmingly and recently completed her first stand-up gig since the lockdown. You can join the introductory posts we started here and here. She is looking for producers and actors to help film a few of her concepts. They may even find a home as a web series or podcast!

If you’d like to skip our pre-game discussion, you can jump to 13:20 if you want to know more about how to post and connect on the Introduce Yourself Lounge. You may also enjoy a quick list of resources we discussed:

So, here’s my “Summer Fun Challenge” for you, my Stage32 fam! Grab a friend, carve out an hour or two, and super-charge your summer energy with ten new friends!

Click Here to Watch My Video with Kelly Shanley!

YouTube Video

Here’s how the “Introduce Your FRIEND Weekend” expands on RB’s original five steps:

1. Jump on a Skype or Zoom call for Pre-Game Prep

  • Catch up, confirm what you both are working on, what you each would like to be working on, and who you both want to meet
  • Discuss what kind of ice-breakers do you wish to employ. What could you talk about that isn’t business and how could you work that into your “online conversation”?
  • “Check It Before You Wreck It” Your profile, your bio, your links - have your buddy review anything before others see it. Refreshing your information gives you a fantastic confidence boost before networking!

***After doing this a few times, I’ve combined 3 Steps into 1 “Pre-Game Prep” so you and your buddy just have one get-together.

2. Post in the Introduce Yourself Lounge

When you do this, you can also introduce your friend! Try to keep it to three sentences or less as your friend can follow up with a comment to continue the thread. Also, think of how you would introduce someone in real life – how you know them, what they do, what they’ve done recently, or what they’re interested in doing are all great ways for others to relate!

When you do this, you can also introduce your friend! Try to link why you think they’d enjoy meeting your friend to help start their conversation. If you cannot tag your friend with an @ symbol, definitely leave a link to their profile so they can follow up with a direct message.

4. Invite at least 10 people to your network (click that plus!)

5. Pay it forward by inviting at least 5 others to join Stage 32!

6. Pulse Check

Check in with your buddy to see how they think it went! Maybe even get some feedback on how your approach worked (or didn’t) and what you could do next time. ***This could be done a day or two after the event, so that you both have a chance to respond to comments over the duration of the event.

How did enlisting the assistance of a networking buddy help you? What are some strategies that worked for you? I’d love to know who you invited, what your approach was, and what you learned. SHARE BELOW!

Let’s share the love and let others know where they can build the most uplifting and empowering relationships in the business! Take a screenshot of you and your buddy, add the hashtags #IntroduceYourselfWeekend #IntroduceYourFRIENDWeekend #Stage32 and #NetworkingBuddies , then tag @Stage32 @rbwalksintoabar and @k.osswrites on Instagram for epic reposts!

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About the Author

Karen "Kay" Ross

Karen "Kay" Ross

Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor

Kay Ross is an actor, producer, writer, and champion for the "inner teenager.” While being a producer on a television show like Netflix’s “Sex Education” would be a dream realized, for now, she kicks ass on shorts, features, and hosts a weekly IGLive to empower creatives called “The Victory Round.”...

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12 Comments on Karen E's Article

This is so much fun! I just posted in the Producers lounge, introducing my friend, fellow producer and actress Michelle Ullmann.  It's a good time to lift each other up and share successes!
4 years ago
Noel Thompson
Screenwriter
Thanks for the shout-out @Kay! The feeling is mutual! I found it so easy to make writer friends on Stage 32, like I was back in Kindergarten - you're a writer/I'm a writer - let's be friends! The feedback I've gotten on my projects has helped me to improve as a writer. No longer a lurker, encouraging others - come out of the shadows and read, write, help! I found offering to read someone else's work before asking for a favor worked wonders!And I agree @kelly Shanley is a great writer and comedienne! 
4 years ago
Noel Thompson
Screenwriter
Ooh is that logline offer still there? I got a doozy! 
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
That is such a great comparison - it's just like making friends in Kindergarden! LOL! And what a great approach! Definitely offer to read and give feedback to invite that assistance in return. I've even suggested to give feedback on loglines as a way to reach out to new people and demonstrate what you bring: https://www.stage32.com/loglines So grateful to have you in the community, Noel! You rock!
4 years ago
Kelly Shanley
Screenwriter, Comedian, Actor
Thank you Kay! I'm so glad I got the chance to Zoom with you and hear all about your amazing projects too! (She's got some amazing stuff coming down the pipeline folks, stay tuned!) This was so fun and a great networking opportunity for sure. Thank you for organizing and helping even more of us to connect!
4 years ago
Kelly Shanley
Screenwriter, Comedian, Actor
Agreed! Let's keep motivating each other :) 
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
It was my genuine pleasure - and thank you for the kind words! Honestly, it has been so heart-warming and motivating to have people like you in my circle of peers who take an interest in my projects. Let this be a lesson to one and all - taking a moment to become a fan of someone else's work is totally worth your time! All the more flattering when you're both fans of each others' works!
4 years ago
Jose Luis Carreño Troncoso
Author, Camera Operator, Compositor, Illustrator, Musician, Production Assistant, Researcher, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Translator
www.joseluiscarreniotroncoso.wordpress.com
4 years ago
Jose Luis Carreño Troncoso
Author, Camera Operator, Compositor, Illustrator, Musician, Production Assistant, Researcher, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Translator
indeed well Monday true.
4 years ago
Film Budget
Producer, Business Affairs Consultant, Creative Executive, Filmmaker, Financier, Line Producer, Production Manager
Love it! Introduced and invited my colleague Kayde McMullen to join Stage 32. Happy Monday! 
4 years ago
Chantel Lee
Screenwriter, Director
Love this, Kay, and how you broke it down to show how easy it is to connect with others and network.  I'm so grateful for the Stage32 platform.  I've met people from all over the world, and even some in my own city who I don't think I would have met otherwise. And, we're working on projects together :)
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Thank you so much, Chaun! That is my greatest hope with this series - that people keep connecting in meaningful ways. So excited for your journey! Going from novice to screenwriter to director?! You inspire me, my friend!
4 years ago
Kimberly Anglemyer
Director, Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter
Awww!  Thanks for the shout out Kay!  As always, it is such a pleasure to meet new people and share ideas.  Hope you are having a great weekend!
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
You are most welcome, @Kimberly ! Thank you for sharing such a lovely message with me! Yes, and a lovely holiday weekend to you as well!
4 years ago
Bob Harper
Screenwriter, Director, Producer, Animator
Great stuff as always Kay!
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Thanks so much, @Bob ! I hope you've been doing fantastic with the launch of Grilled Cheese Media! Will you be posting an update with your Introduce Yourself Weekend post?
4 years ago
Shanika Freeman
Music Composer, Playwright, Screenwriter
Great post, Kay! I used to be terrified of networking. It always felt so cold and a bit like a sales pitch. Thankfully, I've reach a point where I'm more comfortable with reaching out and networking. Truly connecting with folks is what I like! No personal gain just connecting with other creatives and supporting each other is best. Looking forward to seeing the talent that comes through at introduce your friend weekend.
4 years ago
Shanika Freeman
Music Composer, Playwright, Screenwriter
For sure. I've had a lot more opportunities come my way just by networking and taking the initiative. I use to just sit back and hope that someone notices but the key is to take the first and second steps. Go after it. Make meaningful connections.
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
That is fantastic, Shanika! I think your journey truly shows how when you practice any skill, including networking, you have the capacity to get better at it and find what works for you. Have you seen better results from your efforts as well?
4 years ago
Roxi Sim-Hermsen
Screenwriter
my former student Nicole Fairbrother suggested to join here.  Another former student is Rick Dugdale of Enderby Entertainment.  Both students took my career prep media class at A.L. Fortune in Enderby and went on into the film world.  Rick brought Hollywood home with the movie Blackway, filmed in Enderby.  Rick featured one of my paintings in Dawn Patrol.   I have written a few scripts, the latest is called Serendipity based on my Pearls of Wisdom Tarot deck, 9000 of the first edition ended in the Houston landfill, so that is where my story starts... It follows the structure of the tarot, and the script is the overall arc of the story, which could easily be made into a series.  
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Awesome, welcome to the community, Roxi! Have you had a chance to check out the Introduce Yourself Lounge? I think you’ll meet quite a few like-minded creatives there! Don’t forget to scroll through and comment on others’ posts to get the conversation going. Enjoy!
4 years ago
Stephen Foster
Actor, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Director, Playwright, Casting Director
I call it NETWERKING! work those contacts as much as you work the creative work! 
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Hahahaha! Love it, Stephen! WERK IT!
4 years ago
Dawn Prato
Screenwriter
Always such great ideas, Kay! Lately it's been so much of, "blink and suddenly a week has gone by" without interacting here (oops), it's always great to remember that not only are there FANTASTIC people on this site, but it's nice to slow down and take the time to actually, you know, meet some of them. (Especially my fellow Vancouver folk, you know who you are!).
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Roz, you’re a gem! It’s been such a pleasure to get to know you. Ooo, YES! So glad you’re getting back out there! I’ve never missed live events more in my life LOL! To your point, there’s no excuse now. Whether staying in or going out, there are opportunities everywhere to connect with your next collaborator! Why not start with us? Also, y’all - don’t be afraid to reach out to Roz. She’s fantastic at what she does and is such an asset on any project!
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
I can totally relate, Dawn! Especially when it’s “nose to the grindstone” or even checking in with the people you already know, sometimes it’s just nice to have a little reminder to get out there and mix it up. Shake it up, Vancouverites! A global community awaits!
4 years ago
Samita Nandy
Actor, Film Festival Director, Producer, Director
Great post! I think Zoom meetups (in small groups) would be great.  On behalf of the Centre for Media and Celebrity Studies (Twitter @celeb_studies), I am currently featuring working actors on live-stream public broadcasts, and giving a voice for reasons mentioned in my Stage 32 blog: https://www.stage32.com/blog/5-Tips-on-How-to-Regain-Control-of-Your-Acting-Career-in-Celebrity-Culture
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Thanks so much, Martin! I’m glad you enjoyed it!
4 years ago
Karen E Ross
Filmmaker, Producer, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Voice Actor, Actor
Great idea, Samita! Those small group networking meet-ups can be a great way to take an introduction to the next level without feeling like you have to sit through the awkwardness of talking with just one person. Thanks for sharing!
4 years ago