Breaking the Curse of “Write What You Know”

Breaking the Curse of “Write What You Know”

Breaking the Curse of “Write What You Know”

Matt Ritchey
Matt Ritchey
3 years ago

You Know More Than You Think You Do

When I was a struggling writer and actor in my twenties, I worked as a waiter in an Asian-fusion restaurant. Lots of double shifts, very few studio offers (read: none). When someone told me “Write what you know,” I thought they were telling me that I should write a screenplay about a white twenty-something and the dramas they experienced in the restaurant business. (And, to be fair, maybe they were.) And I didn’t want to write about that, nor did I think anyone would want to read it!

But every night when I went home, I would relax by watching old 1960’s Hammer Horror movies or reading Shakespeare. And I loved it. What if, I thought, someone did a “Shakespeare In Love” style story but a horror version about how Edgar Allan Poe lived his own stories. I knew those things very well. And so, that’s what I wrote, first as a stage play, then as a screenplay. And it was not only well-received and well-reviewed, but produced multiple times.

I hadn’t lived any of it and I wasn’t drawing from my own personal life, but I was writing what I knew. More importantly, I was writing what I loved and finding my own original take on it. And that, I’ve found, is key. Audiences really like variations on things they already know and love. THE MATRIX, for all it’s amazing bullet-time special effects, is really just STAR WARS. So how can you take the things you love and put a twist on it that shows your particular point of view of the work or the world?

Breaking the Curse of Write What You Know

(Stills from 2011 production of NEVERMORE featuring Joseph Gilbert and Chloe Whiteford.)

“Your Voice” has “Something To Say”

Whenever I used to see artists or famous people saying things like “I have something to say” or “I want my voice to be heard,” I respected it, I didn’t necessarily understand it. See, I thought it meant that you had to have a really unique, brilliant NEW thing to say. You know, the way that scientists or doctors make new discoveries – whatever I had to say as a writer had to be something so dramatically new that people would step back and go “That’s genius! Why did no one ever think of that before!?”

Plus, if I’m supposed to “write what I know,” then how can I say something new? I haven’t travelled enough, I haven’t had enough relationships, I haven’t lived on the wild side, and my 20’s were a sad blur rather than an exciting time to look back on.

Then one night, after I’d had some success with what I’d worked on, it became clear: Your voice and what you have to say isn’t about coming up with a new molecular compound to change the world, it’s about showing the world how you perceive things based on the unique individual that you are. And that means that no matter what your life has been like, you will always have an original voice.

Your “something to say” is your unique angle on the things that interest you – even things that you don’t quite understand yet. Maybe especially those things.

Breaking the Curse of Write What You Know

When In Doubt, Google

Let’s suppose that you love Westerns and have an idea to do a modern Western but set in Paris. You know all about the cowboy tropes, the structure of Westerns, characters, etc. But you’ve never been to Paris. You’ve maybe never even been out of your town. So how do you Write What You Know?

You learn it.

Citing THE MATRIX again, Neo could hardly walk when he wakes up, but he gets strapped into a computer and learns Kung Fu instantly. You, too, can go from “no clue” to “fighting weight” with research.

And these days, between video, articles, and free library files from the dawn of man, it’s never been easier to get as much information and education as you need or want.

Suddenly, you’re writing what you know!

Getting YOU Into Your Story

So you’ve used your influences to create a unique idea, you’ve structured things out, created compelling characters, and have a draft you’re happy to share with others. And for some reason, the response is a ton of “Strong Project! Not for us, thanks.” Well, sometimes, you can take that at face value. I mean, if the company is dead-set on making their next movie appeal to tweens who like manga, your period drama mashup about aliens landing at Versailles just won’t be what they want.

However, there’s a good chance that there isn’t quite enough of “you” in the script. What are some moments, quirks, some poignant stories ab out yourself that you can infuse into your characters?

If you have a classic Clint Eastwood-esque eye-squinting manly man hero, giving him your fear of spiders is an interesting character trait that can lead to original scenes. Add a touch of your own vulnerability or perspective to whatever straightforward scene that you need to push your plot along. That personal touch will permeate through the whole script and make it far more interesting to read, plus makes it more “original” – because there’s nobody like you!

Breaking the Curse of Write What You Know

Love The Discomfort

The closer and more personal you can make your script, the more appealing it will be. Find ways to take your own moments of discomfort in life and transfer that feeling and those reactions onto your characters.

That doesn’t necessarily mean to write verbatim about that horrible date back in 2017 (though it might!). But how can you write a scene that evokes exactly your emotions in that situation? What’s the perspective you can use to make the audience feel what you felt?

If you can live in the discomfort, people will always empathize… and love your script all the more.

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About the Author

Matt Ritchey

Matt Ritchey

Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor

Matt Ritchey holds a BFA in Acting from NYU’S Tisch School of the Arts, a Certificate in Shakespeare from the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art in London, and is a graduate and former Associate Producer at Director’s Lab West. He runs Storycrafting (storycrafting.biz), personalized coaching for writ...

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17 Comments on Matt's Article

Good ideas for the most part, but I'm NOT putting MY personal life into my creative projects -- period!
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Totally!
3 years ago
Well, if you're talking about my characters having such abstracted traits as right-wing political views and/or a preference for sentimental women rather than cheerful ones, that's fair game as far as I'm concerned!
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Quick note to say thank you to all of you who read and commented on the WRITE WHAT YOU KNOW article! Keep being YOU and bring your unique self to your work!
3 years ago
Magnolia Cocco
Language Coach, Screenwriter
You have no idea how many things came up to my mind while I was reading your article!! It's inspiring and enlightening. You make the distant and tough to personal, close, and doable. Thank you so much!!
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Thank YOU! Glad it was useful!
3 years ago
Gerard Myles
Director, Filmmaker, Playwright, Screenwriter, Theatre Director
The author's approach to discovering "your voice" and "your something to say" was both refreshing and inspiring! It was the best I've heard yet. I love it!
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Thanks, Gerard!
3 years ago
Sheila D. Boyd
Editor, Screenwriter
Late to the game here, but excellent blog. A lot of new writers interpret "write what you know" way too restrictively, forgetting that they know not only experiences, but the pains, joys, or ambivalences that come with them. And it's those feelings that can be transposed into an organically imagined story. Thanks for the reminder.
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Thanks, Sheila! Glad it was helpful! Keep writing!
3 years ago
Gregory Jacobs
Screenwriter
I would add as a way to say the same thing - “what you know is a matter of the writer using the immense resources of Google, Wiki, Kindle account and, shockers, library card to good effect.” However, I will shout out for direct personal experience in one limited way by… …rephrasing the refrain from Write What You Know to WRITE WHO YOU KNOW! Your exact set of friends, relatives and enemies are unique to you and along with your observations of them form the basis of your initial stock characters.
3 years ago
Terrence Sellers-Saidi
Actor, Screenwriter, Marketing/PR, Director, Author
I've always hated the "write what you know" mentality. Because it's kind of why representation of POC is so behind in entertainment. The people given the opportunities kept writing what they know, which was pretty limited. But on the flip side, I think the audience today goes out of their way to get angry about people writing/acting outside of their own box. Like I was thinking about The Birdcage recently and I don't think you could make that movie the way they made it today. You couldn't get 3 straight comedians to play those roles without getting a ton of flack. And if the writer wasn't gay, he or she would get flack too and said to be writing stereotypes or not properly capturing the community as an outsider. So we've created this sad market where write what you know stops being a way to succeed and has now become a defense mechanism to protect your career. As a writer myself, I worry about this a lot, because so many Black writers only get opportunities to write Black stories. But very few of my stories are specifically about the Black experience. Only 1 of my scripts actually needs a Black protagonist for the story to make sense. My first novel, which I'm editing right now, is about a white teenage girl. I almost never "write what I know" and I think that shouldn't be seen as a problem as long as the stories are compelling and believable.
3 years ago
Katherine Blessan
Screenwriter
I love your explanation of what 'voice' is. So liberating!
3 years ago
Elaine Reyes
Filmmaker
It’s like you were reading my mind! I haven’t written my 1st screenplay yet but I’ve been procrastinating and agonizing over 150 ideas to choose from. Your advice helped me decide which one to start with, and it was a complete surprise because it’s the least attractive version of me that happens to be one of the most poignant moments of my life. The story will resonate and hopefully people will relate because it’s definitely an episode of my life that I know very well. ; ‘ ]
3 years ago
Elaine Reyes
Filmmaker
Extremely helpful.
3 years ago
Here is a link that may be of help. https://thewritepractice.com/what-you-dont-know/
3 years ago
Great thinking!
3 years ago
Magnolia Cocco
Language Coach, Screenwriter
Extremely helpful.
3 years ago
Evelyne Gauhàthier
Author, Editor
Oh my God! Thank you so much for that article! It sums up my opinion exactly! If you only write what you know, you will never learn anything new. I'm happy to see I'm not the only one who thinks that way. :)
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Thank you, Evelyne! I'm glad it made an impact! Write on!
3 years ago
Kristin Johnson
Author, Dramaturge, Editor, Film/Theatre Journalist, Marketing/PR, Playwright, Publisher, Researcher, Screenwriter, Script Consultant, Story Analyst, Voice Actor
Some of my best work has come from learning about new things--whether it was researching a Christmas festival in a town I've never been to for a Christmas movie or learning about Ancient Greece. Then you blend that with personal experiences such as actually attending Christmas festivals elsewhere.
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Truly amazing what discovery can bring, isn't it? And then it's no longer research, it's just being curious and inspired!
3 years ago
Arpad Andrew Horvath
Screenwriter, Actor, Director
This inspired me.
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
Thanks, Arpad! Just replied to your DM!
3 years ago
Anne-Mary Ninsiima Romeo
Editor, Playwright, Screenwriter
This is eye-opening. Thanks for sharing!
3 years ago
Matt Ritchey
Script Consultant, Director, Screenwriter, Acting Teacher, Actor
My pleasure! Thanks for connecting!
3 years ago
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