Great article, Tennyson! I sincerely appreciate all these points. As a transgender woman, I look at the landscape of how my community's stories are told...and despair. The problem most often comes from a comparison of the writer's own experiences CONTRASTED alongside their impressions of "what life must be like for 'those' people." Since everyone has a gender identity, for example, that's almost always the base upon which the story is told. In other words, instead of allowing the writing to spring from that different reality alone, the narrative is almost always contrasted against the writer's own "normal" experiences. If you want to normalize something, don't ever "other" it. (And don't even get me started on cis actors playing trans roles!)
One of the best things that ever happened to LGB people was WILL AND GRACE. It used humor to ingratiate the show into America's living rooms, while at the same time giving them a glimpse of what real, lived-in humanity looks like for gay people. That moment has not yet arrived for trans people. Instead, I see almost nothing of trans experience portrayed as anything other than sad, little lives. I can assure you that very often the opposite is true. Personally, I feel there is no more fertile ground for telling stories of overcoming adversity, comedy, drama, and joy than can be found in stories of trans people. My community is finding its voice more and more every day. We will all be richer for it.
It's impossible to hate someone when you know their story. As writers, we should consider telling those stories that are outside our experience as an honoring responsibility. There's a lot riding on it.
One very small point- in your opening line, you used the term "cisgendered." the "-ed" is unnecessary. You are cisgender. To add the "-ed" is the same as saying "Matt Damon is masculined." Like I said...a small point, but another teachable moment. Thank you again.
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Thank you for the note, Diana Fronterhouse! Thank you for having the courage to put your experiences, observations, and stories out there in the world. Our culture is just the body of experience we al...
Expand commentThank you for the note, Diana Fronterhouse! Thank you for having the courage to put your experiences, observations, and stories out there in the world. Our culture is just the body of experience we all choose to have in common, and making that choice gives us a connection to the people around us. When that connection is built on the experiences from a marginalized or vulnerable group, society becomes more of a safety net for those people and less of a hazard.
If it helps at all, here's another article I've written that might be relevant: https://www.stage32.com/blog/How-We-Screwed-the-Showbiz-Culture-Up-And-H...
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Thank you. I completely agree. I might, however, argue your use of the word "courage." Visibility and representation is vital. Only then can people see your story and humanity. So I don't see being ou...
Expand commentThank you. I completely agree. I might, however, argue your use of the word "courage." Visibility and representation is vital. Only then can people see your story and humanity. So I don't see being out as courage, but more as confronting ignorance and bigotry, gaining progress, and simply surviving. Is it courage to pull your hand out of a fire? Or swim for shore? Showing up is necessary!
There's not a doubt in my mind that my community is going to have our moment- we're going to win understanding and acceptance by cancelling out suppositions and outright lies by the haters by showing who we are. By not trading one closet for another. Safe spaces are one thing, but walking into lion's dens (like the white supremacists who question why there should even be stories made about us)- that's how all of us move forward.
...and I loved the other article you suggested!
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I'm very glad to hear the article was helpful! I do understand your point about courage. Showing up is necessary... and at the same time, so many people habitually wait for the next opportunity to mak...
Expand commentI'm very glad to hear the article was helpful! I do understand your point about courage. Showing up is necessary... and at the same time, so many people habitually wait for the next opportunity to make a difference. Not Diana Fronterhouse!
In really real life, I understand and judge people's behavior to be a matter almost completely of habit. Evidently, you've built the habit of addressing complicated and sticky problems in their infancy... and that's a huge one. No doubt, it's a practice that took years to build. I admire it, certainly!