This is a topic that I think is not covered enough. This is something all creatives experience. Actors, writers, directors, artists, et al. We all must find a healthy way of coping and dealing with rejection. We probably deal with reject more than acceptance and, I would say, we creatives experience more rejection than your average person.
When I go to audition, I try not to focus on not getting the part. I do my best and tell myself the outcome doesn't matter. If I am proud of my audition, I can let it go. Still, it has been heartbreaking when I don't cast for a part I know I can rock, I've played it before, and I know I blew castings' socks off. I am in a small pond, so if I didn't get cast for Lady M then who the f--- did? What did she do in her audition? Then, I go into, am I kidding myself? mode. If I can't get cast in a community theater then I must be deluding myself. Is this a sign to give it all up?
Also, there have been times, when I submit for an audition and I never get a response. No sides sent. Which means, I was rejected from even auditioning despite meeting the character description. How do I not take that personally?
That is my question for you. How do you handle rejection?
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I think you are looking at this backwards Alexandra. "Leap, and the net will appear."
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Suzanne Bronson i likes this re-frame and admire the leap you have taken
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Juliana Philippi that's great. What would you says is the 'why' for your acting?
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Stephen Folker that certainly seems to work for you!
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Alexandra Stevens My why, in acting, is to feel what others can't... It's...expression. Feeling, embodying a person who's story is being told, is my why. A service : )...
Expand commentAlexandra Stevens My why, in acting, is to feel what others can't... It's...expression. Feeling, embodying a person who's story is being told, is my why. A service : )